Cav's Place

The problem is that memories are fewer and more faded as time goes on, and flashes even more so. The beginning and the end are very fresh in my mind and most flashes are either from one or the other. The more I advance into the relationship, the less I seem to remember. A good […]

Since this is the last would-have-been anniversary before getting to be hurt longer than I was in the relationship, I’m trying to figure out exactly when that’ll happen. But it depends on the day I consider as the day we broke up. I don’t think that will ever be clear, but I tend to take […]

July 12th is coming. It’d have been our sixth anniversary. As it is, it just means it’s been nearly three years since she left. Getting closer and closer to being hurt longer than I’ve been in the relationship. I’m just stuck on that now, have been since last week, but I supposedly have work to […]

You keep seeing on “social networking” (not to mention “dating”) sites a lot of annoyed comments from women saying that men always send them short and stupid messages, with awful spelling and grammar, and are only interested in sex (real if possible, virtual if not), so they have nobody worth replying to and are getting […]

It rained this evening. Heavily, but without wind. I like rain, but it brings back memories. Then again, what doesn’t? And what would be left without memories? It was nice, a lot of lights turned off in the buildings around here, some people standing in front of their windows and looking out just as I […]